Confidence Coaching Wellington 

Confidence coaching can provide a structured system of support to help individuals who have ongoing struggles with things like; speaking up in meetings, presenting to colleagues, their boss or customers, promoting themselves in a way that feels authentic.

This type of coaching can help people with self-doubt, a harsh inner critic and social anxiety.

To find out if I offer what you feel you need, please email me or book a free chat.

What does Life Coaching look like?

Typically, Life coaching sessions help us overcome overthinking, procrastination, lack of confidence, perfectionism (pushing yourself too hard), being scared of what people think and failing. Especially failing publicly.

Then it's about looking at potential solutions that resonate and feel right. Knowing that you will be encouraged and supported, and kept accountable every step of the process.

Coaching sessions are designed to help you identify what's holding you back and implement strategies to get you into action so that you can feel more confident and successful.

It starts with an obligation-free call to see if we are a good fit and to find out if what I offer will meet your needs. 

Coaching sessions can be 45 or 60 minutes long. I have packages for hourly, weekly, fortnightly or monthly sessions depending on your situation, challenges and budget.

Teaching people to be kinder to themselves, to build self-belief, befriend their inner critic and grow their courage and confidence

Life Coaching Courses

Courses require a little more time commitment as there is (optional) prep work to do before each session. Sessions are also flexible and can be taken online or in person if you are local.

Each week there is online content to review and self investigative worksheets to complete before your weekly on hour session (online or in person)

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Are you looking to create a vision for your future life? And help to build the skills to live a freer, fuller, more confident life? This 12 week course will help you manage limiting beliefs, find forgiveness for yourself and others, and help you manage your paradigms/thought patterns for better outcomes. It will also help you create a vision for the life you’d love

Working with the law

What are the laws of the universe, and how can you harness them? This 12 week course will help you find a more spiritual approach to enhancing your life. The law of attraction, reciprocity and karma are explained (plus 7 more) so that you can use them to your full advantage. If you’re needing more spirituality plus practical easy to implement solutions you’ll enjoy this.

Rising strong

Dealing with past trauma? This 4 week course is for people who have experienced trauma. This course is useful to remove any blocks to moving forwards that are deeply ingrained. People sometimes start here and move on to sessions or another course if they have felt very stuck for a long time.

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Vicky is that "someone in your corner" when you are having a tough time. She shares fabulous insight into your circumstances then you get a great follow up email with a summary of takeaway points. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend her to someone in a difficult business situation. I worked with her for six months and received tremendous value from our sessions.
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Nichola Riddle
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In a period of major upheaval in my life, I found myself sitting in a café feeling stuck and overwhelmed by the question of “what next?”. On a whim I googled career coach, and I’m so grateful that search led me to Vicky. From our very first meeting, her energy, positivity, and genuine care came through. Because I had the time available, I signed up for the Dream Builder programme, and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve made. What I’ve taken away from my weekly sessions with Vicky is truly priceless. The tools, insights, and mindset shifts she helped me build have had an impact on every part of my life, not just my career. She guided me through some big moments, helped me navigate uncertainty, and made the process feel lighter with plenty of fun and laughter along the way. I can’t recommend Vicky highly enough. If you’re feeling stuck, unsure, or simply ready for something more, she’s an incredible person to have in your corner.
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Kim & Aaron Worthy
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Vicky is a fantastic collaborator and thought-provoker in her life coaching work. I found her sessions to be very well run and useful in thinking about 'life stuff' in a different manner. Each session was always followed up with prompt and professionally laid out notes to record what was covered. Would use again!
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I have just completed 5x leadership and life sessions and I've booked 5 more. Vicky has helped me with my overthinking, self-sabotage, and anxiety. She's given me practical tools to combat these thoughts when they arise and given me hope that I can change the way I think and pursue my ambitions. I highly recommend her.
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Vera Padilha
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Even in just one session, Vicky helped me tackle my overthinking, comparison habit, self-doubt, and fear of showing up online. these are crippling for a small business owner like me! Her Summary of Goals and Actions became my guide. I kept re-reading it for months, and slowly, I started seeing real change in myself. I highly recommend her!
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Tanya N Black
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Vicky has been instrumental in helping to transform the way I see myself. I initially thought a leadership/life coach would 'teach' me how to be better organised, better at giving and receiving feedback, completing important work I usually avoid etc Instead Vicky has helped me realise I already have skills, abilities and the tenacity to make changes but for many reasons I'd convinced myself that I couldn't. It is a subtle difference, what seem like small or incremental changes, mostly in how I mentally approach or perceive things, has been transformative. And when I forget to use the approach or it doesn't work - I don't beat myself up about it, cause I know I 'can' and I will get there - so overall a whole lot happier, confident and enjoying life ... its not really easy to explain, its like magic or a Jedi-mind trick! But 10/10 would recommend.
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Mike Ruffell
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Vicky helped me think about how I could resolve some (private and work) issues I was probably avoiding, or not knowing where to start. She listened, provided caring feedback and structure to get me thinking. I found her to be super nice, practical and encouraging. Well worth the investment.
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"Life-Changing." I have found the authentic ME! Vicky's unwavering support, knowledge, expertise, and accountability have helped immensely! Without releasing, I had withdrawn and developed an unhealthy view of myself as being unworthy, a fraud, and lacking confidence. This non-serving mindset changed after our first coaching session and continues to grow/develop as we work towards the end goal. It's been a journey, but I now belong at the table! Thank you, Vicky.
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Loved my sessions with Vicky. She speaks my language, gets right to the crux of every issue, and offers a new and clear perspective for positive change. Highly recommend.
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I found Vicky at a point when I felt incredibly low, lacking self esteem and confidence. All I needed was someone to give me the much needed push and motivation and Vicky did just that and much more. Vicky has a holistic approach in dealing with concerns, breaking things down one at a time and addressing them tactfully. Five sessions down with Vicky and I can certainly feel the difference in myself, my attitude and my general approach with life obstacles. Vicky has an incredibly positive aura, her voice and words has this energy that instantly lifts you up. Her post session notes are nothing but awesome and empowering to go back and re-read. Vicky is passionate in her role as a life coach and I can now see how she has an impact on people’s lives. I’m very grateful our paths crossed. I would 100% recommend to anyone who needs a little guidance with their life goals.

Book yourself a free 30-minute chat

I’ll help you begin to map out a path towards the future you’re meant to live. Then if you feel we have a good connection, we can talk about what I offer and take it from there.

Together, we can achieve extrodinary results that completely alter your frame of mind, empower you, and help you make peace with your inner critic.

Frequently Asked Questions

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Can coaching help with overthinking?

Yes. Overthinking is one of the most common challenges clients bring to coaching. Together we work on identifying thought patterns, reducing self-doubt, building self-trust, and creating practical strategies to move into action.

I’m a perfectionist and constantly hard on myself. Can coaching help?

Absolutely. Many people struggle with perfectionism, procrastination, people-pleasing, and unrealistic expectations of themselves.

Often perfectionism keeps people stuck in overthinking, avoidance, or fear of getting things wrong. Coaching helps break those patterns by combining mindset work with practical action-based strategies, accountability, and manageable steps that build confidence and momentum over time.

The goal is progress, not perfection.

Can coaching help with anxiety?

Coaching can help you better understand your triggers, thought patterns, behaviours, and coping strategies while building confidence and emotional resilience.

Coaching is not a replacement for clinical mental health treatment, but it can complement personal growth and wellbeing support.

I struggle with confidence at work. Can you help?

Yes. Many clients seek support around speaking up, leadership confidence, career progression, visibility, and believing in themselves professionally.

Why do smart, capable people still struggle with self-doubt?

Often, self-doubt is driven by long-standing beliefs, conditioning, comparison, fear of failure, or fear of judgment.

Coaching helps people challenge these patterns and reconnect with their strengths. Learning how to reassure and negotiate with our inner critic can be life changing.

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