“As a mother you are not replaceable. Let that sink in. So when you’re thinking you’re not enough, you’re actually everything”. 

I read this line recently and as a solo parent of two teenagers, it really resonated. This was my most popular post on LinkedIn last week so it appears that it’s relevant to many of us. Whether we are parents or not.

Feeling ‘not enough’ when we feel like we need to be across everything and everywhere. Often at the same time.

Parenting teens is a whole new experience. I’m learning and adjusting daily.

Maybe we already are everything to those who need to know we have their backs. Whether they say so or not.

Perspective. I found this hugely comforting. Love to hear your thoughts. 

Pictured: the quote plus my youngest teen doing and I what we love connecting outside. This place is in Island Bay Wellington, has a rope swing, lots of pine trees and the occasional mushroom. 

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If you’re looking for more clarity, direction and confidence in your life, or some help with feeling like you’re not enough, let’s talk. You can book a free intro chat here to see if I offer what you need. And if you don’t know what you need, I ask good questions, and can help with that too! 

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Vicky Evans

Leadership and Life Coach | Conference and Corporate Workshop Facilitator

Experienced, double certified leadership and life coach. Corporate facilitator/trainer. Work with me to gain clarity, direction and confidence, for you or your team. Plus a step by step action plan (and a ton of encouragement, support and relatable personal tips) from every meeting. 

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What does a life coach actually help with?

Life coaching helps you identify what may be holding you back and supports you to move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and direction.

Coaching can help with overthinking, self-doubt, perfectionism, confidence, career decisions, boundaries, relationships, motivation, and feeling stuck.

How do I know if life coaching is right for me?

If you feel disconnected, overwhelmed, unfulfilled, stuck in old patterns, or unsure what your next step is, coaching can help you gain clarity and momentum.

Many people come to coaching when they know something needs to change but aren’t sure where to start.

What results can I expect from coaching?

Every person’s journey is different, but clients often experience improved confidence, stronger boundaries, reduced overthinking, clearer goals, better communication, and greater self-belief.

Because the coaching process is highly practical and action-focused, clients often notice increased momentum, improved follow-through, reduced procrastination, and greater consistency in taking action toward the life or leadership goals they want.

Many people also report feeling calmer, more motivated, and more aligned with the life they truly want.

Do you provide accountability between sessions?

Yes. Accountability is one of the biggest reasons coaching creates lasting change. Many clients know what they want to do, but struggle with procrastination, overthinking, perfectionism, or self-doubt.

Coaching provides structure, support, encouragement, and practical accountability to help you follow through on the changes you want to make. Clients also receive personalised session summaries and action steps via email to help maintain focus and momentum between sessions.

What if I’ve already tried everything?

Many clients come to coaching after trying therapy or counselling or self help books/courses to work through challenges on their own. Sometimes what’s missing is objective support, accountability, new strategies, and someone who can help you see your blind spots more clearly.

Coaching is fundamentally future-focused and action-oriented. While we may explore past patterns and limiting beliefs, coaching is designed to help you create practical change moving forward.

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