Generated by Rank Math SEO, this is an llms.txt file designed to help LLMs better understand and index this website. # Vicky Evans ## Sitemaps [XML Sitemap](https://vickyevans.com/sitemap_index.xml): Includes all crawlable and indexable pages. ## Posts - [How to rewrite your own story](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-rewrite-your-own-story): We all love HAPPY endings. Here's the story of how I found mine. And why every day, I get to work with people who are seeking to find their happy - [Overcoming fear, and the power of someone else’s belief in me](https://vickyevans.com/overcoming-fear-and-the-power-of-someone-elses-belief-in-me): Over twelve years ago, someone believed in me. It was November 2013, me and my family had emigrated from the UK. Big shift, lots of uncertainty and fear of how it would all go - if the kids would settle, if we'd stay.  - [For people pleasers: the benefits of prioritising yourself – FIRST!](https://vickyevans.com/for-people-pleasers-the-benefits-of-prioritising-yourself-first): First off, I am a total (recovering) people pleaser myself - and there's no shame in that. I want to share my experiences and learnings to help you if you feel this is a growth area.  - [Confidence coaching for networking, public speaking and self-promotion! ](https://vickyevans.com/confidence-coaching-for-networking-public-speaking-and-self-promotion): Networking. Public speaking. Self-Promotion. Does it strike fear into the heart of you??!!  - [Confidence Is Built Through Action – Not Before It](https://vickyevans.com/confidence-is-built-through-action-not-before-it): One of the biggest misconceptions people have about confidence is believing they need to feel confident before they take action. - [How present are you really? Real life tips on gaining clarity and direction.](https://vickyevans.com/how-present-are-you-really-real-life-tips-on-gaining-clarity-and-direction) - [Managing our secret burdens, obligations and duty better](https://vickyevans.com/managing-our-secret-burdens-obligations-and-duty-better): Secret burdens…Obligation, duty and guilt have been coming up a lot this month in my executive, leadership and life coaching sessions. - [When should I use a Coach? Real life tips on making this choice.](https://vickyevans.com/when-should-i-use-a-coach-real-life-tips-on-making-this-choice): Before I began my career as a life coach (a decade in this business after 15 years corporate in leadership and client facing roles) I knew I needed help. - [Want to do 2026 differently?](https://vickyevans.com/want-to-do-2026-differently): For me, the new year is always a time for reflection and planning around goals and intentions for the year. Clearly writing my January blog wasn't the first!  - [December Uplift!](https://vickyevans.com/december-uplift): Welcome to my December Uplift! our last blog for 2025 - where the heck did this year go? Even my teenagers are shocked!  - [Can self-doubt be a GOOD signal? ](https://vickyevans.com/can-self-doubt-be-a-good-signal): The answer is yes, but it depends on which type. Self doubt can be a GOOD SIGNAL. - [How to navigate babies and back to work challenges in your forties! ](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-navigate-babies-and-back-to-work-challenges-in-your-forties): My ‘back to work’ after babies experience started with being made redundant on maternity leave. - [How to CHOOSE YOU!](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-choose-you): As a single, fifty ‘something’, it’s a bloody good job that I like my own company! Week-on-week-off child care took a long time to adjust to after my divorce in 2018. - [How to Think and Dream Big](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-think-and-dream-big): We (or our teams) need to be equipped with SKILLS or STRATEGIES to make them happen.  - [Three Steps To Managing Uncertainty Better](https://vickyevans.com/three-steps-to-managing-uncertainty-better): When you're everything (and everyone) in your business – who is looking after you? - [What is A Vision Workshop Event? ](https://vickyevans.com/what-is-a-vision-workshop-event): Saturday 17th May was a special day for me, the other women who presented and of course, the women who chose to attend this event in Wellington. Devoting a Saturday afternoon to being inspired, sharing time, energy and contributions and feeling a sense of community!  - [“As a mother you are not replaceable. Let that sink in. So when you’re thinking you’re not enough, you’re actually everything”. ](https://vickyevans.com/as-a-mother-you-are-not-replaceable-let-that-sink-in-so-when-youre-thinking-youre-not-enough-youre-actually-everything): I read this line recently and as a solo parent of two teenagers, it really resonated. This was my most popular post on LinkedIn last week so it appears that it’s relevant to many of us. Whether we are parents or not. - [What does working with a life coach feels like? ](https://vickyevans.com/what-does-working-with-a-life-coach-feels-like): Get more elegantly captured than I could have written! This wonderful Google review came in yesterday. - [新年快乐!! Happy new lunar year to everyone!](https://vickyevans.com/%e6%96%b0%e5%b9%b4%e5%bf%ab%e4%b9%90-happy-new-lunar-year-to-everyone): A big thank you for your support and engagement!  - [Ending 2024 well and the start to your best year EVER! ](https://vickyevans.com/ending-2024-well-and-the-start-to-your-best-year-ever): As 2024 draws to an end, it's often a time to reflect on your achievements or to push yourself to complete that one last thing before the new year ahead!  - [How to feel better when everything sucks! ](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-feel-better-when-everything-sucks):  Let’s give EACH OTHER a shout out today!!!  - [Our personal or team brand exists by DESIGN or DEFAULT](https://vickyevans.com/our-personal-or-team-brand-exists-by-design-or-default): Why is PERSONAL BRAND an important part of my career success? How does our TEAM BRAND impact how we are viewed within the organisation? - [Top 3 points for Professional & Personal success](https://vickyevans.com/top-3-points-for-professional-personal-success): BIG question! What are the absolute BEST top 3️⃣ focus points for evolved professional and personal success? - [Can a Life Coach help my OVERthinking?](https://vickyevans.com/can-a-life-coach-help-my-overthinking): Overthinking may be the single most common detractor from taking action and achieving success. I see this every day during client consultations and sessions. I totally get it, life can be intense, busy and all consuming. But getting STUCK in your head means you are not taking action. Overthinking can create more of the same (perpetuating what you are experiencing now) for days, weeks or even years! - [Why OVERRIDING your COMFORT ZONE can be the very best thing to do](https://vickyevans.com/why-overriding-your-comfort-zone-can-be-the-very-best-thing-to-do): Finding success via adversity is such a learning journey. Here are examples three examples from my life!  - [Intelligence for Leaders and better lives! ](https://vickyevans.com/intelligence-for-leaders-and-better-lives): There’s so much uncertainty and fear out there right now. It’s a time to tune up our skills so we can better suppprt ourselves and our people.  - [Why you need a professional workshop facilitator for your workshop or conference!](https://vickyevans.com/why-you-need-a-professional-workshop-facilitator-for-your-workshop-or-conference): Corporate and conference workshops aren't just a job for me.  - [Goal setting for 2024 – what’s holding you back? ](https://vickyevans.com/goal-setting-for-2024-whats-holding-you-back): Setting yourself up for success on 2024!  - [Do you LOVE Mondays?](https://vickyevans.com/do-you-love-mondays): Do you LOVE Mondays? Or dread the start of your week from Sunday night?! - [Key Benefits of Group Coaching! ](https://vickyevans.com/key-benefits-of-group-coaching): A question I’m often asked is, “Can I work with a life coach on a budget?” The answer is a resounding Yes!  - [Tips to help OVERTHINKING!](https://vickyevans.com/tips-to-help-overthinking): Tips to help overthinking as the seasons change and the search for certainty increases. - [Is this it? When to reevaluate your life!](https://vickyevans.com/reevaluating-your-life): Feeling trapped in someone else’s life not your own? Overwhelmed, stressed, and anxious? Do you ever wonder, IS THIS IT? Is the life you worked so hard to create really what you want?  - [How to Self-Promote like a Pro! ](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-self-promote-like-a-pro): This month I’m promoting a new Group coaching course, Self Promotion Mastery. - [Kia Ora and Welcome](https://vickyevans.com/kia-ora-and-welcome): In this video, I am taking a moment to share what I do for some of my personal clients. Particularly those who struggle with confidence and their beliefs about what they can or can’t do.  - [Who is supporting you?](https://vickyevans.com/who-is-supporting-you): Today I was talking with a client about their network of support. Here's me with one of my biggest supporters, my just teenage daughter, in one of our favourite places!  - [Why get outside your Comfort Zone?](https://vickyevans.com/why-get-outside-your-comfort-zone): Ten years ago I made a brave decision to do something way outside my comfort zone! - [Top Tips on Living YOUR Best Life!](https://vickyevans.com/top-tips-on-living-your-best-life): Do you ever look back at your life and wonder how you got this far? And in one piece? Sometimes I wish I'd had the wisdom of age and experience back then. - [Why Work With One Of Wellington’s Top Life Coaches?](https://vickyevans.com/why-work-with-one-of-wellingtons-top-life-coaches): AMONGST WELLINGTON'S TOP LIFE COACHES 2022! Super stoked to announce that I was recently listed amongst the top fifteen Life coaches in Wellington for 2022! Life coaching wasn't always my profession.  I spent twenty years working in the Corporate World before I had my children. Redesigning my life in my mid-forties was the best decision I could have made!  WHY DID I BECOME A LIFE COACH? So why did I choose to train as an Advanced Life Coach? Simple, I loved the Professional Development and Career Coaching I did as a Senior Manager. But it's more than that, I thrive on helping people to live as their most courageous and authentic selves. Whilst managing the life/work juggle as seamlessly and successfully as they can. The biggest change for me, looking back is that now I know that I contribute so much more to helping people everyday. Making that meaningful contribution during daily sessions, and contributing to charities I love every time I welcome a new client, is super rewarding. And doing this whilst caring for my kids - and being present, kind to myself and living a happy, healthy life? Priceless! HOW TO CHOOSE A LIFE COACH There are a lot of great coaches out there. Check out the list in the article below for a good overview. Meeting the person you think might be a good fit for you is essential. Most experienced coaches offer a free discovery/strategy session or video call. The better ones will send you questions before you do the call so that they have some background on you before you chat. This is something I offer every time, and it helps me work with clients who are a great fit for me and my style of coaching. If you're curious, book your free session here: www.vickyevans.com/online-booking (it's free and no obligation). WHY WORK WITH ME? Rather than me self-promoting, here's a link to my Google Reviews, let's hear what my clients say about working with me; Vicky Evans - Life Coach, Personal And Professional Development, Speaker, Facilitator  WHAT PROBLEMS DOES A TOP LIFE COACH SOLVE? The most common problems I solve are helping my clients to increase their confidence, self esteem, learning to be kinder to themselves and to have their own backs. And to show up as their best selves in situations they find challenging. Helping clients to find clarity and direction and create lives they love.  To change careers, to move cities, countries, to have closer, more connected relationships with themselves and others. And most of all to slow down and appreciate all they have! Learning the art of living in appreciation - and flow - not rush - is also life-changing! LIFE COACHING SERVICES AND INVESTING IN YOURSELF Offering a range of services, from single sessions to year long VIP training programmes, there's many approaches that may suit your needs and available time. You get to choose what suits your time and budget. I also facilitate sessions and workshops for teams and organizations across Wellington, New Zealand and Internationally. As a single parent myself, I want to make the life coaching services I offer accessible to everyone. So I offer payment options, so that you can schedule sessions, pay for them, how and when it suits you. TOP WELLINGTON COACHES 2022 - FULL ARTICLE: Use this link to the full article here if you use LinkedIn, https://influencedigest-com.cdn.ampproject.org/c/s/influencedigest.com/coaching/top-coaches-wellington-2022/amp/ Or here if you use Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid04nL1bj49VyWDhVwPnhqbpWNwVdQiksei2XUfc4irPvjJRSBVjssDzXZxT4nevLxJl&id=645693449 Thank you for checking out my blog, feel free to browse and share links to any topics of interest to you - or someone you love. Enjoy each day and be kind to yourself - you deserve it. - [Why you have to slow down to start living](https://vickyevans.com/why-you-have-to-slow-down-to-start-living): Do you feel like you’re always rushing from one thing to the next? Feeling pushed for time and that you can’t catch up? - [How To Confidently Start The Next Chapter In Your Life!](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-confidently-start-the-next-chapter-in-your-life): How often do we find ourselves re-playing past events in our heads over and over again? Maybe it was a relationship break up, a lost job, or a terrible event? - [6 Ways To Increase Your Self-Worth](https://vickyevans.com/6-ways-to-increase-your-self-worth): Hope you've had a fantastic start to a brand new year and looking forward to seeing you all thrive in 2022! - [Have You Left Your Partner? 5 Tips For Getting Through](https://vickyevans.com/have-you-left-your-partner-5-tips-for-getting-through): Taking the enormous step to leave a partner, especially when you have children together, is so hard. But it’s when the enormity of this decision hits it can be most difficult of all. - [Get better at speaking in public with my 3 top tips!](https://vickyevans.com/get-better-at-speaking-in-public-with-my-3-top-tips): Does the thought of standing up in front of people fill you with dread? - [How to Grow Your Self-Belief in 6 Easy Steps](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-grow-your-self-belief-in-6-easy-steps): Do you wish you could be more confident? Can you be too hard on yourself? If you’ve answered yes, me too! Its one of the reasons I became a life coach, I'm excited to share that I have designed something that could help you - please keep reading! - [Experiencing recovery and growth? Get coaching solutions!](https://vickyevans.com/experiencing-recovery-and-growth-get-coaching-solutions): Running your own business is full of challenges. When experiencing business growth, not only can it be an exciting time, but it can also be overwhelming! - [Feel like you’re winging it? It could be Imposter Syndrome!](https://vickyevans.com/feel-like-youre-winging-it-it-could-be-imposter-syndrome): Back in my 30’s, I was working as a Senior Account Manager for a Microsoft Account in central London. I had lots of responsibility, I got paid big bonuses, and I was having a lot of fun! - [How to expand your comfort zone!](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-expand-your-comfort-zone): Please like or comment below if you enjoyed this and feel free to share with anyone you feel would benefit : ) - [Make the end of 2021 a SPRINT FINISH!](https://vickyevans.com/create-a-sprint-finish-for-2021): Are you wondering, what the heck happened to 2021? - [How to boost morale and get your team talking!](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-boost-morale-and-get-your-team-talking): Are your staff unhappy or disengaged? Do they lack motivation? Can team meetings be too long and full of challenges? Are people struggling to work together? - [How can a Life Coach help ME?](https://vickyevans.com/how-can-a-life-coach-help-me): I think we can all agree that 2020 has been one heck of a year! I've seen a big increase in the number of people seeking to make changes in their lives. Can you relate? - [How To Tame Your Inner Critic And Start Living!](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-tame-your-inner-critic-and-start-living): We all have stories we tell ourselves. It’s up to us to choose which ones to believe. As Henry Ford famously said, whether 'we think we can do something or think we can’t - we are usually right!'  - [Feeling Stuck? Your struggle may help you!](https://vickyevans.com/feeling-stuck-your-struggle-may-help-you): Knowing where to start, in the midst of a pandemic, left me feeling stuck. But here's the thing, if I am feeling stuck, likely some of you are too so lets dig a bit deeper into how our struggles actually 'serve' us! - [Invest in a Coach AND save time & money!](https://vickyevans.com/invest-in-a-coach-and-save-time-money): Have you ever thought to yourself, I'd LOVE to work with a coach BUT....I can't afford the time or the money? Shifting your mindset may be easier than you imagine. So if you believe you can't afford either the time or the money let me share some of my tips on how to invest in a Coach AND save time & money! - [Blog Series part 6: Six Steps To Self-Belief, Staying Motivated and Taking Action!](https://vickyevans.com/blog-series-part-6-six-steps-to-self-belief-learn-how-to-stay-motivated-and-take-progressive-actions-even-when-it-feels-hard) - [Blog Series Part 5: Six Steps To Self Belief, Creating A Vision For The Life You’d Love To Live!](https://vickyevans.com/blog-series-part-5-six-steps-to-self-belief-creating-a-vision-for-a-life-youd-love-to-live): Hi, I’m Vicky, and I help Professional people like you create a life they LOVE to Live! Welcome to week five in my blog series, "Six Steps To Self-Belief. Reclaim Your Power!'. One of the first steps I teach my clients is to help them develop an emotionally charged vision their lives. This is NOT a blog about creating a Vision board - that's useful too but a written vision is what we are here to begin to master! So lets explore that a little more. - [Blog Series Part 4: Six Steps To Self Belief, Reclaim Your Power! You Deserve Empowerment and Success!](https://vickyevans.com/blog-series-part-4-six-steps-to-self-belief-reclaim-your-power-you-deserve-empowerment-and-success): Welcome to part four of my Blog Series, From Self Doubt to Self Belief, Reclaim Your Power! I’m Vicky, and I help Professional people like you experience more empowerment and a increased sense of deserving. This generates even more success in our lives! - [Blog Series From Self-Doubt To Self-Belief part three: Managing Your Fear To Build Self-Belief](https://vickyevans.com/blog-series-from-self-doubt-to-self-belief-part-three-managing-your-fear-to-build-self-belief): Welcome to part three in my blog series, From Self-Doubt To Self-Belief, Reclaim Your Power! Today we investigate MANAGING fear and self-doubt better! So that you can FEEL more confident despite the fear that accompanies the route to greater success. - [Blog Series From Self-Doubt To Self-Belief, Part Two: How to Create A Growth Mindset](https://vickyevans.com/how-to-create-a-growth-mindset-and-a-more-optimistic-outlook-regardless-of-your-circumstances): Welcome to the second blog in my six week series designed to help Professional people Move From Self-Doubt to Self-Belief and Reclaim their Power! This week focuses on being open to a life you’d love more. In short, creating a growth mindset and more positive outlook regardless of your circumstances. - [Blog series: Six steps from Self-doubt to Self-belief part 1](https://vickyevans.com/blog-series-six-steps-from-self-doubt-to-self-belief-part-1): This blog series is for people who struggle with self-doubt but believe that there is more to life than this. Secretly longing for a bolder, brighter more expansive life, but afraid or unsure of where to start? Start here and follow the weekly steps and watch your thoughts change. I'm super excited to announce my new course, Six weeks from Self Doubt to Self belief - reclaim your power! as a self-paced learning course very soon! - [Is there more to life than this? Find your meaningful contribution…](https://vickyevans.com/is-there-more-to-life-than-this-find-your-meaningful-contribution): After many years working in the corporate world I couldn't shake the feeling that something was missing. Whatever it was had me searching for more money, more responsibility, more love, boots and handbags, vodka....you name it I tried it. But the 'gap' that I was trying to fill didn't get smaller. Despite a great job, fabulous team of people, great co-workers and an impressive salary. Does this resonate with you or sound familiar? What was I searching for? A sense of genuine contribution. How could I contribute more in ways that felt meaningful to me? Fulfilling my desire to problem solve and help people at the same time. - [Finding Optimism When You Really Want To Cry](https://vickyevans.com/finding-optimism-when-you-really-want-to-cry): No one could have anticipated the recent tragic events in Christchurch New Zealand. I feel proud and privileged to be part of a nation that has come together with such overwhelming support for the victims and their families. This bears witness to the strength and solidarity that defines us as a country. It also defines us as part of a global community united against hate crimes. - [Transform your success with diversified income streams!](https://vickyevans.com/transform-your-success-with-diversified-income-streams): Living the dream can sound a bit trite and unrealistic when you're struggling to pay the bills every month. I've lived that life and moved beyond it and I've helped my clients to do the same. One of the strategies that I love is based on diversifying your income streams so that you CAN Create a Life You Love - with greater ease and a sense of appreciation! - [Feels too good to be true?](https://vickyevans.com/feels-too-good-to-be-true): Do you ever find yourself wondering if the good space you're in can last? - [It’s a chapter, it’s not your whole book](https://vickyevans.com/its-a-chapter-its-not-your-whole-book): When life throws you a curve ball, which it invariably will, how do you respond? Most of us default to drama in one sense or another, perhaps falling into victim-hood, anger and bitterness. This is often known as the ‘why me’ stage of moving through an experience we don’t prefer. And if you’re human, you’ve probably found yourself here more than once. - [If you stop struggling you’ll float!](https://vickyevans.com/if-you-stop-struggling-youll-float): We all have LONGINGS and DISCONTENT at some point in our lives. I lived for a good part of a decade in the longing and discontent world, thinking that was it and I’d never steer back into less troubled waters. The good news is that these two emotional states are our growth signals! Think about the spectrum of emotions we can drift or fly into each day. The negative spectrum includes frustration, disappointment, resentment, anger, sadness, emptiness….the list is a long one. If you consistently experience negative emotions relating to a key area in life such as: your work (or lack of it), your relationships, time or money freedom or health you may like to read on! - [Truly madly deeply…](https://vickyevans.com/truly-madly-deeply): Do you believe in happy ever after? Maybe you’ve found it and if you have that’s awesome. If not, this may help you work out why not. My clients often come to me to work on their career,  but here’s the thing, as careers start to progress, often we notice areas of discontent in other parts of our lives. 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You live with your partner, you may or may not have children but you live in a rhythm which for some is a comfortable habit and that’s great, for others it’s become a habitual sense of inertia or even an endurance test. - [Reaching 50 and the turkey neck…](https://vickyevans.com/reaching-50-turkey-neck) ## Pages - [Overthinking perfectionism Coaching Wellington ](https://vickyevans.com/overthinking-perfectionism-coaching-wellington) - [Career Change Coaching Wellington ](https://vickyevans.com/career-change-coaching-wellington) - [Confidence Coaching Wellington ](https://vickyevans.com/confidence-coaching-wellington) - [FAQs](https://vickyevans.com/faqs) - [Newsletter Sign up](https://vickyevans.com/newsletter-sign-up) - [Professional Development Free Session](https://vickyevans.com/professional-development-free-session) - [Leadership Coaching](https://vickyevans.com/leadership-coaching) - [Free Group Coaching Session](https://vickyevans.com/free-group-coaching-session) - [Self-Promotion – 6 Week Challenge](https://vickyevans.com/self-promotion-6-week-challenge) - [Work With Me](https://vickyevans.com/work-with-me) - [Privacy Policy](https://vickyevans.com/privacy-policy) - [Terms and Conditions](https://vickyevans.com/terms-and-conditions) - [Account](https://vickyevans.com/account) - [Online Courses](https://vickyevans.com/online-courses) - [Book](https://vickyevans.com/book) - [Blog](https://vickyevans.com/blog): We all love HAPPY endings. 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And why every day, I get to work with people who are... - [Facilitator](https://vickyevans.com/facilitator) - [Life Coach](https://vickyevans.com/life-coach) - [Contact](https://vickyevans.com/contact) - [About](https://vickyevans.com/about) - [Home](https://vickyevans.com/) ## Courses - [Six Steps to Self Belief](https://vickyevans.com/courses/six-steps-to-self-belief) ## Lessons - [Step 6: Celebrating success and your six month action plan](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/step-6-celebrating-success-and-your-six-month-action-plan): Welcome to your FINAL video, 'Celebrating Your Own Success And Action Plan' as we move towards the end of your Six Steps To Self Belief online course. - [Step 5: Staying motivated when it feels hard](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/step-5-staying-motivated-when-it-feels-hard): Video 9 You are more powerful than you think - [Step 4: Creating a blueprint for my life](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/step-4-creating-a-blueprint-for-my-life): Video 7 Setting goals to anchor my vision - [Step 3: Building our self belief](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/step-3-building-our-self-belief): Video 5 Managing our fear and self-doubt better - [Step 2: Increasing my sense of deserving](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/step-2-increasing-my-sense-of-deserving): Welcome to Step two where we work on 'Increasing Our Sense of Deserving'. - [Step 1: Where and I and what would I love?](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/step-1-where-and-i-and-what-would-i-love): Video 1: Where am I and what would I love to create in my life? - [Course Outline and Objectives](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/course-outline-and-objectives): So lets get into your course content! Its a Six Step process, two lessons in each step. You need to complete each video in order to access the following one - this is a great way to help you get most out of your course! There are downloadable worksheets for each step, and you'll get more value from the course if you do them! - [1.2 Intro Section 2](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/1-2-intro-section-2): Your Instructor: pic of me plus …. - [Intro Section](https://vickyevans.com/lessons/intro-section)